Thursday 20 September 2012

The Lost Art of Hospitality

"Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares" (Hebrews 13: 2)

"Given to hospitality" (Romans 12: 13).

 
 

In many Churches today in North America, hospitality seems to have fallen on hard times. It seems the only time it is practiced is when some special or popular guest preacher or missionary comes to a specific local Church. The said speaker is shown hospitality during his stay. After his time comes to a close at that local Church, he will praise that Church for their wonderful hand of fellowship and hospitality that was demonstrated to him. So he leaves with the mistaken notion that specific local Church is very hospitable to its people. However, the sad truth is most Churches are not known for their charitable spirit in hospitality. Usually the rich and influential Christians in a local Church will only show hospitality to their family and close friends they invite in. Sadly, the poor and despised Christians in the congregation get left out and forgotten. I believe in a lot of cases on purpose. Such behaviour does not demonstrate a spirit of Christian love and fellowship.
 

Background and Tradition of Hospitality. 

The noted author of Cruden's Complete Concordance has this to say about the value of hospitality:
 

"This virtue has always been very much esteemed by civilized peoples. The Jewish laws with regard to strangers are framed in accordance with the spirit of hospitality, Lev. 19: 33, 34, etc.; and before the giving of the law there were many instances of the entertaining of strangers, Gen. 18: 2, 3; Heb. 13: 2. It was more necessary in those times of difficult travel and few inns, but the spirit of modern hospitality is the same. In Apostolic times the virtue was strongly enjoined on the followers of Christ, although the higher civilization and larger population made it less of a necessity than in patriarchal times."[1]
 

Beloved devotional writer William MacDonald had this to say about the Middle Eastern tradition of hospitality:
 

"According to Middle Eastern tradition, a person is responsible for the safety of his guest, even if he doesn't particularly like him. That explains the expression in Psalm 23: "You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies." The enemies are standing at a distance, glaring at the guest, but he is safe in the care of the shepherd. It is a common courtesy not to speak ill of a guest after he has departed, no matter how he may have behaved."[2]
 

The Four New Testament Passages on the Word Hospitality. 

Now having said that, what does Scripture say about hospitality? There are four key verses mentioned with the word "hospitality" in the New Testament (see Rom. 12: 13; 1 Tim. 3: 2; Titus 1: 8; 1 Pet. 4: 9). Each of these four Scriptures can be seen in four specific points: (1.) "Given to hospitality," is seen here in this passage as a means of provision for poor saints, Romans 12: 13; (2.) "Given to hospitality," is to be demonstrated as one of the practices of Church leaders, 1 Tim. 3: 2; (3.) "A lover of hospitality," is the kind of passion that Church leaders should be known for, Titus 1: 8; then finally (4.) "Use hospitality," to one another without being peeved at each other, 1 Pet. 4: 9. So we can see from these passages of Scripture above that two verses is directed towards all saints who have the ability to provide hospitality to fellow Christians and strangers without partiality, and two verses are specifically directed towards Church leaders who are to lovingly practice hospitality to all fellow believers and strangers. However, all these verses are a blueprint for all Christians in a local congregation to practice and follow to a measure of their ability for the Lord's honour and glory.
 

Scriptural Examples of Hospitality. 

I am sure many examples could be cited from the Bible concerning hospitality. But for brevity sake, I will just quote two examples. One from the Old Testament and the other from the New Testament. We read of Abraham's hospitality in Genesis 18: 2-22. First, Abraham saw three men and went and greeted them (v. 2); second, he invited them to stay (v. 3); thirdly, he offered them refreshment (vs. 4-5); fourth, he provided for them sacrificially of his substance (vs. 6-8); then finally, they all communed together in fellowship (vs. 9-22). Indeed, Abraham "entertained angels unawares" (Heb. 13: 2). The pre-incarnate Christ and two of His angels!
 

Next, we read of two sisters, Martha and Mary who received the Lord Jesus into their home. Martha invited Jesus and served refreshments, while Mary sat at Jesus feet and listened to His Word (Luke 10: 38-42). Next, we read of Jesus life changing visit, when he comforted the hearts of his two beloved friends, Mary and Martha, when He raised their brother Lazarus from the grave (John 11: 1-46). Then finally, we see something beautiful, each family member serving the Lord Jesus in some specific way. Their hospitality refreshed the Lord in three distinct ways: (1.) Martha refreshed the Lord Jesus by her Work, v. 2; (2.) Lazarus refreshed the Lord by his Witness, v. 1, 2b, 9; (3.) and finally, we have Mary refreshing the Lord Jesus with her Worship, v. 3. No wonder the Lord Jesus Christ frequented their house often, for there he found wonderful friendship, fellowship, and hospitality.
 

"Lazarus, Mary, and Martha were good at hospitality. Theirs was a home in which Jesus loved to be. Every Christian home can be like that. When we entertain anyone in His name, it's the same as if we were entertaining Him."[3]
 

Beware of Showing Partiality in Hospitality. 

In the Parable of the Guest in Luke 14: 7-15, the Lord Jesus Christ gives this instruction on hospitality. "When you give a luncheon or a dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or rich neighbors, otherwise they may also invite you in return and that will be your repayment. But when you give a reception, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed, since they do not have the means to repay you; for you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous" (Luke 14: 12-14, NASB). You can certainly see the Lord's heart of love shown in these verses above to the unloved and forgotten, the destitute, the lonely, the disabled, and the poor. Oh, that we as the people of God would heed these words, and once again recover the Lost Art of Hospitality! 

 

In entertaining strangers,
You just never know;
The guest just could be an angel,
That receives the kindness you bestow.
 

In entertaining strangers,
Along life's thorny way;
A lonely and rejected stranger was helped,
Because you cared enough to love and pray.
 

In entertaining strangers,
The Church could be involved;
If only Christians would be sensitive to God's leading,
Needs could be met, and problems resolved.
 

In entertaining strangers,
You just never know;
The guest just could be an angel,
That receives the kindness you bestow.



[1] Alexander Cruden, Cruden's Complete Concordance, (Dugan Publishers, Inc., Gordonsville, Tn. 1986), pg. 314.
[2] William MacDonald, The Disciple's Manual, (Gospel Folio Press, Port Colborne, ON., 2004), pg. 340.
[3] William MacDonald, The Disciple's Manual, pg. 339.

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